Many people I know have experienced loss recently, and it’s even harder when the last words exchanged with the deceased were said in anger.
I can’t predict if you’ll get married, have children, or be kind, but I am certain we all face death. It’s a part of life, even though we often avoid thinking about it. This is something that Buddhist teachings reflect on deeply:
“Everyone who has come into being, and those who will, all will eventually leave this world. A wise person, understanding the inevitability of loss, should live fully and sincerely. There are those who do not realize that one day we all must die. But those who understand this, resolve their disputes.”
Avoiding thoughts of death requires conscious effort. This might even be my last post on this blog. You might have already passed away before I hit the “publish” button. For all I know, these words could be written by one person for another who is no longer here.
Life is short. Be kind.
This message really hits home. When I was six years old, I had a great grandmother, and in a fit of anger, I said something hurtful to her. I still remember the pained expression on her face. That was the last time I saw her. When I was nine, I learned of her death, and the regret tore me apart. It took years to understand that I was just a child and didn’t grasp the full impact of my words.
Now, at 35, as a Buddhist, I still have unresolved conflicts with family members who left me when I was homeless at 23. These teachings resonate deeply with me but are incredibly challenging to live by.
As a new Buddhist, contemplating death is difficult, but reminders like this make it unforgettable. Thank you.
This is beautiful and very true! Thank you for sharing.
Peace and blessings,
Karen